Just saw this video shared by a good friend on Facebook and had to write about it. This is one of the best videos I've seen in a while and I LOVE it because it explains the importance of how you portray yourself. I believe a girl should always dress in a very classy and tasteful manor not a revealing one. Girls these days are always saying things like "why can't I find a good guy", "boys are such pigs", and "I want a good boyfriend" . And its because they attract those kinds of boys. Girls need to realize that not all boys are that way, that is just the kind of attention you are drawing to yourself. I think what girls don't understand is that you get what you attract. The girls who are saying this are the ones who party and get drunk and sleep around every weekend and its all for attention and popularity. You aren't going to find a Godly man by doing these things. Godly men want respectable girls and the type of girl I just mentioned is not a respectable girl. It is the way you dress, speak, and act that will attract a truly good guy. I think girls these days try too hard to put themselves out there and chase boys when really, the bible says that "He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains a favor from the LORD." Proverbs 18:22. Notice that because of God's favor the man finds the woman, not the other way around. More girls need to become aware of this and should slow down and be patient and wait for a man to come to them because by searching for a man themselves they will not find the "good guy" they are longing for, they'll only find the ones who are attracted to how the girl disrespectfully portrays herself and her body. Srry if I went on and on but this is a topic that always bothers me and I always want to speak about so if I ranted I'm sorry I'm done now!
xoxo Em